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在现实生活中,有一些人总爱对别人乱加“批判”,说谁谁怎样自私,谁谁如何贪心,谁谁怎样狡猾,谁谁又如何虚伪等等。这种人典型的特点是极度的感觉过敏,猜疑心重,他们将别人无意的、非恶意的甚至是友好的行为误解成与自己作对;他们心胸狭窄、鼠肚鸡肠、嫉妒心强,对别人获得的成就或荣誉感到紧张不安,妒火中烧,不是寻衅争吵,就是在背后说风凉话,或者公开抱怨和指责别人;把自己看成一朵花,把别人看成豆腐渣;脱离实际地好争辩,固执地追求个人的“权利”或“利益”。所有这些行为,都缘于一种异常的心理状态——敌意。
In real life, some people always love to criticize others for their chaos. They say who is selfish, who is how to be greedy, who is who is cunning, who is deceitful, and so on. Such people are typically characterized by extreme hypersensitivity and suspicion. They misinterpret other people’s unintended, non-malicious, or even friendly behavior as their own. They are narrow-minded, have a jealous heart and are jealous of others The achievements or honors he has received are uneasy, jealous, not provocative or quarreling, or sarcastic remarks behind the scenes, or public complaints and accusations of others; he sees himself as a flower and views others as bean curd; , Stubborn pursuit of personal “rights” or “interests.” All of these actions are due to an abnormal state of mind - hostility.