人们常说 :“只有自己最了解自己”,但是 ,在现实生活中 ,能完全了解自我——物质自我、社会自我及精神自我者 ,真可谓凤毛麟角。心理学家认为 ,自己并不完全了解自己 ,这是人们普遍的状况 ,只是不同的人不了解的程度不同而已。主要表现在两个方面 ,一是过高估价自己 :这种人以 It is often said that “only you know yourself best”, but in real life, it is rare for you to fully understand yourself, the self-material self, the social self and the spiritual self. Psychologists believe that they do not fully understand themselves, this is a common situation in the world, only different people do not understand the extent of the difference only. Mainly in two aspects, one is overvalued themselves: such people