在长白朝鲜族自治县八道沟镇,民间有一个习俗,订婚前,女方家属会组团到男方家里参观。上世纪90年代初,一辆满载乘客的汽车驶出坑坑洼洼的南川村,车上的人们议论纷纷:“婆家这么穷,咱闺女嫁过去不得跟着吃苦啊?”“对啊,咱可不能答应这门婚事。”车上的人你一言,我一语地议论 In Badaogou Town, Changbai Korean Autonomous County, there is a folk custom. Before engagement, the family members of the woman will organize a delegation to visit the man’s home. In the early 90s of last century, a car carrying passengers drove out of the bumpy Nanchuan Village. People in the car talked about each other: “The husband is so poor, we should not marry her in the past.” Can not agree to this marriage. "You a man in the car, I talk about it