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做人要诚实,这是我国人民的传统美德。父母都希望自己的孩子有诚实的品德。可是,孩子为什么会不诚实呢?根源往往在父母自己身上。一、孩子不诚实是大人逼出来的。孩子失手打破了花瓶,父母发现后问他:“是谁打破的?”孩子初次做错事,如实承认了。可是父母只心痛损失,不分青红皂白地对孩子骂一通、打一顿。这样,孩子下次弄坏家里的东西,当父母追问的时候,他就不敢承认,甚至说假话。二、孩子不诚实是大人宠出来的。孩子喜爱的玩具、画册,不肯拿出来跟亲戚、邻里的孩子一起看、一起玩,谎称搞坏了、寻不着了,父母反夸他真能干,真机灵。这样颠倒是非,孩子对说假话就逐渐无所谓了。
Being honest should be the traditional virtue of our people. Parents want their children to be honest. However, why children are dishonest? Roots often in their own parents. First, the child dishonesty is forced by adults. Children missed the vase lost, the parents found after asking him: “Who broke?” The first time a child made a mistake, honestly admitted. However, only the loss of heartache parents, indiscriminately scolded children, hit a meal. In this way, the next child to ruin the family things, when parents ask, he would not admit, or even lie. Second, the child dishonest is pet out of adults. Children’s favorite toys, albums, unwilling to come out with relatives, children in the neighborhood to see, play together, lied to be ruined, could not find the parents repugnant he can really, really clever. This reversal of right and wrong, the children gradually tell lies no matter.