“我们教育孩子不仅要成绩好,能考上好学校,更重要的,能使孩子将来遇到困难能挺过来。”这是一位教师在学生家长会上深情讲述的一段话。笔者和许多家长听了都极为赞赏。遇到困难能挺过来,这是人生最大的本领,也是家长、社会对孩子殷切的期望。不是么?生活没有平坦道,难免会遇到曲折,尤其是在社会转型期,生活中的各种矛盾、困难也必然增多,这就需要每个人都具有迎战困难的勇气和方法。而时下似乎有不少的孩子意志脆弱,他们往 “We educate children not only to score well, to be admitted to a good school, more importantly, to make the child survive in the future difficulties encountered. ” This is a teacher in the parents of students and affectionately told a passage. The author and many parents are extremely appreciated. Encounter difficulties to survive, this is the greatest ability in life, but also parents, the community’s ardent expectations of their children. Is not it? Life is not flat, it will inevitably encounter twists and turns, especially in the social transition, all kinds of contradictions and difficulties in life will inevitably increase, which requires everyone to have the courage and methods to face difficulties. And nowadays there seem to be many children who are weak and will go