说你教过孩子撒谎,你肯定会站出来为自己辩护。你会说你把《狼来了》的故事多少次反复讲给孩子听,一再叮嘱孩子要做一个诚实的人。事实上,根本就不会有家长刻意去教孩子撒谎,起码在主观上是这样的。但是很少有人会注意到这样一个现实,因为你的一些不经意的语言,客观上起到了“教孩子撒谎”的作用。 Say you have taught your child to lie, and you will certainly stand up and defend yourself. You will say how many times you tell the story of a “wolf” repeatedly to your child and repeatedly ask the child to be an honest person. In fact, there will be no parents who willfully instruct their children to lie, at least subjectively. But few people will notice such a reality, because some of your casual languages ​​have objectively played the role of “teaching children to lie.”