读过的人生絮语中,有一条我特有感觉:“你改变不了事实,你可以改变态度;你改变不了过去,你可以改变现在;你不能控制他人,你可以掌握自己……”事缘早年初见这条“心灵调整配方”时,刚巧某人又失恋了,情绪闹得很凶猛,“不能控制他人(的爱),你可以掌握自己(不再被爱的心情、态度)”这个对比法,用在他身上最适合不过了。于是就把整段絮语手抄在一张心意卡上,而不用电邮,这样,才有中医把脉后开个药方的气势。 I have read the life of the discourse, there is one of my unique feeling: “You can not change the fact that you can change your attitude; you can not change the past, you can change now; you can not control others, you can own ... ...” Early in the early years of this “Soul Adjustment Formula ”, happened to be someone and lovelorn, the mood is very fierce, “can not control others (love), you can control themselves (no longer love the mood, attitude ) ”This comparison method, the most suitable for him. So I put the whole lot of transcripts handwritten on a card, instead of using email, so that there is a Chinese medicine to open a prescription after the momentum.