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现在许多家长有这样一种习惯:喜欢拿自己孩子的学习成绩、才艺表现、获奖情况甚至个头高低与别的孩子相比较,如果自己的孩子占据上风,便得意洋洋、四处夸耀;若是自己的孩子“技不如人”,就会唉声叹气,有的还会数落孩子,甚至动手打骂。其实,这样类比既不科学,也不合理。每个孩子的能力和长处都不相同,所处的学习环境也有差异,并没有什么可比性。比的时间长了,会给孩子增加精神负担,甚至会对孩子将来的性格发展带来严重的负面影响。
Many parents nowadays have a habit of like taking their children’s academic performance, talent performance, award-winning or even tall compared with other children, if their children prevail, they triumphantly, around boast; if their children “Technically inferior”, it will moan sighed, and some will count the number of children, and even beat up. In fact, such analogy is neither scientific nor reasonable. Every child has different abilities and strengths, different learning environments, and is not comparable. A longer period of time will increase the mental burden on the child and may even have a serious negative impact on the child’s future character development.