对于孩子的教育,家长们不遗余力。但许多父母忘记了,自己不但是孩子的第一位老师,父母关系、家庭关系更是孩子认识社会,学习融入社会的第一课堂。那么,家长该给孩子树立哪些榜样呢?课程一:尊重他人。孩子不仅会留意你对配偶讲话的方式,更会留心你私下里如何评论自己的另一半。如果孩子听到妈妈对爸爸的牢骚或指责,这就给孩子传递了明确的信号:爸爸是个蠢人,而妈妈也不值得信任,如果我不在她身边,她是不是也会这样说我?因此,家长不经意的言辞,以及缺乏对配偶尊重 Parents do their best to educate their children. However, many parents forget that they are not only the first teachers of their children, but also their parents and family relationships. They are also the first class in which children learn about society and learn to integrate with society. So, what kind of role model should parents have for their children? Lesson 1: Respect for others. Children not only pay attention to how you talk to your spouse, but also how you privately comment on your partner. If the child hears the mom’s complaint or accusation against Dad, it sends a clear signal to the child that Daddy is a fool and her mother is not trustworthy. Would she say that if I were not with her? So, Parents’ careless rhetoric and lack of respect for their spouses