在我还没有孩子的时候,就常听到朋友或同事抱怨自己的孩子不要爸爸,整天就缠着妈妈,时间长了,带孩子好像全是妈妈的事,爸爸也不管了,弄得妈妈焦头烂额。等我自己怀上了孩子,也就不自觉地关注起育儿知识来。很多书上说,父亲是孩子成长中一个至关 When I had no children, I often heard my friends and colleagues complain about their children. I did not want my father. I harassed my mother all day. I spent a long time with my children as if it was all my mother. Battered. Waiting for myself to have children, also unconsciously concerned about the parenting knowledge. Many books say that the father is a child’s growth in one