希望自己的孩子优秀是每个家长的心愿,但是在孩子成长的过程中,许多家长由于教育理念的滞后或偏颇,再加上没有好的培养方法,孩子的现实与家长的期望往往有很大的距离,这让家长倍感焦急和懊恼。人总是按照习惯做事,而习惯的事情再经过仔细加工就会成为一个人的擅长。多年的教育实践表明,让孩子善学不妨从养成习惯着手,双管齐下,效果会事半功倍。概括说来就是既要尊重孩子的意愿又要讲究教育的艺术性。 Hope that their children’s excellence is the wish of each parent, but many children grow up in the process, many parents because of the lag or biased educational philosophy, coupled with the lack of good training methods, the reality of children and parents often have great expectations The distance, which makes parents feel anxious and upset. People always do things according to their habits, and habits of things and then carefully processed will become a person’s good. Years of educational practice shows that letting children learn well may wish to start from the habit to adopt a two-pronged approach, the effect will be more with less. To sum up, it is necessary to respect the wishes of children and pay attention to the artistic nature of education.