|策划人小语|“我这一切都是为了你啊!”“你翅膀硬了就不听我们的话了吗?”“我吃过的盐比你吃过的米还多,你这样做就是不对!”“孩子啊,爸妈这辈子最大的希望都在你身上了,你可千万不能让我们失望啊!”……似乎每个孩子都听过父母这些貌似“无私”的话,其中浸着父母满满的苦口婆心和拳拳之情。但实际上,这些言语中或多或少会蕴含着父母自私的心理,其带来的压力和杀伤力足以让一向乖顺的孩子瞬间翻脸,甚至走上叛逆的道路。 Planners small language | “I am all for you ah! ” “You do not hear our words hard? ” “I have eaten more salt than you have eaten , You are wrong! ”“ Children ah, parents in my life’s greatest hope are you, you can not let us down ah! ”......“ It seems that every child have heard of these parents Looks like ”selfless " words, which immersed their parents full of earnestness and boxing feelings. However, in fact, these words more or less imply the psychological selfishness of their parents. The pressure and lethal force they bring are enough to make an obedient child instantly fall out and even embark on the path of rebellion.