30岁,面对自己的婚姻大事,你准备好了吗?钱钟书说:婚姻像围城,围在城外的人想进去,围在城内的想出来。当人长到30上下的年纪,无论是家里的七大姑八大姨,还是身边的师长、同事、朋友,周围的一切舆论都会把你推向婚姻的舞台。从2010年开始,曾被称作“问题儿童”的中国第一代独生子女陆续迈入30岁的门槛,但面对这个时代、社会、家庭给予的种种压力,80后的大多数正在徘徊于围城内外犹豫不决、举棋不定。到底该进还是该出?他们正面临哪些纠结? 30 years old, in the face of their marriage event, are you ready? Qian Zhongshu said: marriage like a siege, surrounded by people who want to go in, surrounded in the city came up. When people grow up to 30 years old, whether it is the family’s seven aunt eight aunt, or around the teachers, colleagues, friends, all the public opinion around you will be pushed to the stage of marriage. Since the beginning of 2010, the first-generation only-begged children in China, once called “problematic children,” have gradually entered the threshold of 30 years of age. However, in the face of the pressures exerted by this era, society and families, most of the post-80s are under way Hovering around the siege indecision, indecisiveness. In the end the advance or the exit? What they are facing tangled?