听是首要的心理沟通技巧。班主任与学生沟通交流,绝不仅仅是让学生听班主任训话。班主任应该学会倾听,即用心去听听学生们的想法。刚开始与学生沟通时,班主任可以给出一些问题情境,想方设法让学生敞开心扉,说出自己的想法,想说什么就说什么。学生在讲的过程中,老师不应该打断他们,应该用心倾听。 Listening is the primary psychological communication skill. The communication between the head teacher and the students is not just for the students to listen to the class teacher’s lecture. The head teacher should learn to listen, that is, listen carefully to the students’ ideas. When you first started communicating with students, the head teacher could give you some problem situations and try to find ways to let students open their hearts, say what they want, and say what they want to say. While the students are talking, the teacher should not interrupt them and should listen carefully.