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在当今的高校中,学生校园恋爱已经是非常普遍的现象了。在校大学生平均年龄均在19岁左右,正处在性生理和性心理的成熟期,他们渴望得到异性的吸引,渴望得到爱情,并且中国高校条例上也明确规定,大学生是可以结婚的。从外在因素看,许多高校教师也提倡学生在大学期间谈恋爱,一方面希望通过学生学习之余能找到与之适合的一生的伴侣。另一方面也希望通过恋爱的方式增强学生的责任感。许多家长也急于希望孩子能通过恋爱甚至结婚的方式,使孩子快速成熟、成长起来。因此,大学生谈恋爱似乎从各方面来看都是合法、合情、合理的。但是由于大学生普遍不够成熟,刚刚转变为成人,还无法适应角色的情况下,随之而来的是恋爱引发的思想观念上的巨大波动。而这种波动如果是积极地,那么会成为大学生事业、学习进步的催化剂,如果是消极的,必然会分散精力、耽误学业、甚至会酿成不可预知的可怕后果。所以了解当代大学生的恋爱观,并对其加以正确的引导是十分必要的。
In today’s colleges and universities, student-campus love is already a very common phenomenon. The average age of undergraduates in school is about 19 years old. They are in the period of sexual and psychological maturity. They are eager to get the attraction of the opposite sex and long for love. And it is also stipulated explicitly in the Chinese university regulations that college students can get married. From the external factors, many university teachers also advocate students fall in love during college, on the one hand hope that students can find suitable life partner. On the other hand, I also hope to enhance students’ sense of responsibility through the way of love. Many parents are also eager to hope that their children can grow up quickly through love and even marriage. Therefore, college students seem to fall in love from all aspects of legal, affectionate and reasonable. However, as the undergraduates are generally not mature enough, they have just become adults and are unable to adapt themselves to their role. What follows is the tremendous fluctuations in the ideological concepts triggered by love. If this kind of fluctuation is positive, then it will become a catalyst for university students’ career and learning progress. If they are negative, they will inevitably disperse their energies, delay their studies and even cause unpredictable and terrible consequences. Therefore, it is very necessary to understand the concept of love of contemporary college students and to guide them properly.