中国人的情感太含蓄了,不擅长爱的表达。比如,朋友帮助了你,你很感激,却不懂如何表达谢意,认为朋友会知道我的感激心情,说出来反而太虚,却不知友人心里会因为没有及时的回馈而倍感失落。父母养育了孩子多年,孩子心里满是努力奋斗,出人头地,光宗耀祖,以回报父母的心情,却每每无法开口。 Chinese emotions are too subtle, not good at expressing love. For example, friends help you, you are very grateful, but do not know how to express gratitude, that my friends will know my gratitude, say it but too empty, but I do not know my heart will feel lost because there is no timely feedback. Parents raised children for many years, full of children's hearts full of hard work, succeed, light ancestors, in order to return the feelings of parents, but often can not speak.