在作压力咨询顾问这十几年期问,我所见到的最为普遍最具毁灭性的心理趋向,就是专注于我们想要得到的而非我们所拥有的。我们到底拥有多少似乎并不重要;我们只是一味地扩展我们的欲望单,而这就注定我们永远不会满足。“这一欲望得到满足后我就会幸福”--这种心态在该欲望真的满足后又会有。我们的一位朋友于某个星期天履行完 In the ten years of stress consultants, the most common and devastating psychological trend I have seen is to focus on what we want rather than what we have. It does not matter how much we have in the end; we simply expand our list of desires, and it is doomed that we will never be satisfied. “I’ll be happy when this desire is satisfied”--this mentality will be after the desire is really satisfied. One of our friends finished on a Sunday