人真的要学会做一点没用的事情,人类历史上很多伟大的创造、艺术等不都是在无聊的时候、在做着看似无用的事情时诞生出来的吗?中年之后,尤其是40岁以后,我突然意识到,过去当成理想想去拥有的那些东西现在都有了,可是我怎么并不觉得自己幸福呢?比如,我过去觉得有一个自己比较喜爱的职业,干得还算可以,有一个比较稳定的家庭,不那么缺钱,衣食无忧,就会很幸福,可是现在这些都实现了,为什么心里还经常有痛苦、焦虑、不确定等很多东西,而且会 People really want to learn to do something useless, many great human history, creativity, art, etc. are not boring in the time doing seemingly useless things out of it? After middle age, especially After age 40, I suddenly realized that what used to be something I wanted to have is now available, but how do I not feel myself happy? For example, I used to think that I had a favorite job and did it well Yes, there is a relatively stable family, not so short of money, comfortable, it will be very happy, but now these have been achieved, why my heart often there are many things like pain, anxiety, uncertainty, and will