闲暇时,我问朋友:你痛苦或寂寞时,首先想到谁?他淡然一笑说:“只有自己啰,快乐需要自己找。”听后释然。细想起来有些苦恼正是缘于内心缺少一种对生活的热诚与宽容,缺少一份豁达所致。有了豁达,人的生活便融进了几分和谐,几多清平和宽适,便多了几许灵性和悟性。于是他更加热爱生命,热爱生活,追求卓越。他们静静而又坦然 In my free time, I ask my friend: When you are suffering or loneliness, whom do you think of first? He smiles indifferently and says, “Only yours, happy, you need to look for yourself.” In retrospect, some distress comes precisely from the lack of enthusiasm and tolerance in life and lack of open-mindedness. With open-mindedness, people’s life will blend in with a bit of harmony. So he more love life, love life, the pursuit of excellence. They are quiet and calm