生活中经常听到一些父母抱怨孩子有话不愿意与自己讲,搞不清楚孩子究竟在想什么。父母肯定希望孩子把自己当朋友,有什么心里话都能说出来。但他们往往忽略了一个问题:孩子在成长的过程中,会不断碰到一些他们从未遇过的困惑。这些困惑,他们要么觉得难以启齿,要么害怕父母责怪,甚至对别人讲也不告诉父母。一些孩子的心身健康因此而受到影响。 有一位青年给我讲了他小时候的一件事:上初中时, In my life I often hear some parents complain that their children are unwilling to talk to themselves about what their children are thinking. Parents certainly hope that the children themselves as friends, what the heart can say it. But they often overlook a problem: children grow up in the process, will continue to encounter some of the confusion they have never encountered. These confused, they either find it hard to tell, or fear their parents blame, and even tell others do not tell their parents. Some children’s physical and mental health affected. One young man told me one of his childhood things: When I was in junior high school,