我有个朋友,他是个小时候不哭、长大后连苦都不会说的大人。他很优秀、很有责任感、样样都好,很会逗人笑,我见他时总是欢乐的。如果你心情不好,他就变得很别扭了,不知如何跟你说话,因为他不擅长面对别人的坏情绪。一个这样什么都好的人,你觉得他缺少的是什么呢?我想他自己心里知道吧。要改变却很难了,因为他已经是个大人了,从小他就习惯这样。 I have a friend who was an adult who did not cry when he was a child and would not even speak up when he grew up. He is very good, very responsible, everything is good, it’s funny, I’m always happy when I see him. If you are in a bad mood, he becomes very uncomfortable, I do not know how to speak with you, because he is not good at dealing with the bad mood of others. What do you think he’s missing from a good person like this? I think he knows in his own heart. It is difficult to change, because he is already an adult, and he grew accustomed to this.