11年前,那是一个寒冬的下午。窗外,大片的雪花绕着雪松盘旋飞舞,枝头深绿色的叶尖上挂着小小的冰柱。我的大儿子史蒂芬去上学了,丈夫里德去上班了,三个小孩挤在厨柜旁,桌面上堆积着蜡笔和记号笔,汤姆正用星星和条纹画徽章,为纸飞 11 years ago, it was a cold winter afternoon. Outside the window, large flakes of snow swirled around the cedars, and small icicles hung from the dark green tips. My oldest son, Stephen, went to school. Her husband, Reed, went to work. Three children huddled around the kitchen cabinets. Crayons and marker pens piled up on the table. Tom was drawing badges with stars and stripes to fly the paper.