我女儿今年10岁,她很优秀,周围的人也都喜欢她,可是她有点傲。我担心她过于自负,就想要不要在她做得不好时给她泼点凉水,降降温。我不知道这样做是否可以,会不会伤害到孩子? My daughter is 10 years old and she is very good. People around her also like her, but she is a bit proud. I was worried that she was over-arrogant and wanted not to splash her cold water and cool down when she did poorly. I do not know if this can be done, will it hurt my child?