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作为父母,一定都有这种经历:工作辛苦、身体不适或者心情低落,此时孩子又过来缠着你陪他玩,给他讲故事,或者没完没了地在你身边折腾。这时你会怎么办?简单的斥责、制止和拒绝?还是强打着精神奉陪到底?或许,你有没有想到第三种方法——把你的感觉告诉孩子,试着让他去理解你。这不仅仅是换个思路的问题,还关系到孩子对别人的语言、意图的理解和把握能力。这种能力也会影响到孩子交往和学习的正常发展。
As parents, there must be such experiences: hard work, physical discomfort or depression, when the children come and haphazardly accompany him to play with him, give him a story, or toss around you endlessly. At this time what would you do? Simple reprimand, stop and refuse? Or striving to fight in the end? Perhaps, did you think of a third way - tell your feelings to your child, try to let him understand you. This is not just a question of thinking, but also of children’s understanding and mastery of others’ language and intentions. This ability will also affect the normal development of children’s communication and learning.