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有这样一个故事:一对五十年的老夫妻,都很喜欢吃鱼,每次吃鱼时妻子都会把鱼头夹给丈夫,丈夫会把鱼尾夹给妻子,他们相敬如宾的过了五十年,生活很美满,孩子们也一致以为父亲喜欢吃鱼头,母亲喜欢吃鱼尾,但是在他们结婚五十年纪念日时,当孩子将鱼尾夹给母亲时,她说到能不能让我吃一次鱼头,那时大家才知道原来母亲最欢吃鱼头,而有趣的是,那时父亲也说他实际上最喜欢吃鱼尾,结果是一片愕然。由此我们可以推想一下:原来一直以为互相了解的人中到底有多少是自以为是呢?百这样的事情在现实生活中却并不少见啊!这里的老夫妻夫疑都是奉献型,将自己最喜欢的送给对方,他们的生活在别人看来也是幸福的,但缺乏了沟通,这样的爱也许是盲目的,也许是错误的,也许是一种负担,不是吗?
There is such a story: a couple of 50-year-olds love to eat fish. Each time a fish is eaten, the wife will give the head to her husband. The husband will pinch the tail to his wife. They are over fifty Years, happy life, children also agree that his father likes to eat fish head, the mother likes to eat fish tail, but 50 years anniversary of their wedding, when the child will be the tail folder to the mother, she said can not let When I ate the fish head, we realized at that time that most of the mothers liked the fish head. What was interesting was that at that time, my father also said that he actually liked fish tail, and the result was a stunned one. From this we can deduce: how many of the people who always thought they knew each other were self-righteous? One hundred things like this are not uncommon in real life! The old husband and wife here are devoted themselves to their favorite Given to each other, their life seems happy to others, but the lack of communication, such love may be blind, maybe wrong, maybe a burden, is not it?