人生在世,每个人都有自己的理想、信念和追求,也只有不断地否定、战胜自我,才能追赶、超越别人,实现人生目标。从某种意义上说,人生奋斗的过程,就是不断与别人“比”的过程。俗话说：“人比人,气死人。”现实生活中还真有人因与人“比”而气得要死。笔者有位朋友,身居县长之位,按说已是比上不足、比下有余了,可他最近却突然烦躁起来,烦躁到觉得生活已没有什么意思,以至于扬言“工作没法干了”。一打听才知道,原来是不久前市委调到他县里的县委书记曾经是他以前多年的副职,下级变成了“上级”,因此便觉得没面子了,便嚷着没法干了。 Life is alive. Everyone has their own ideals, beliefs and pursuits. Only by constantly negating and defeating oneself can we catch up and surpass others and achieve our goals in life. In a sense, the process of life struggle is the process of constantly “comparing” with others. As the saying goes: “More than people, angry people.” Really there are people in real life because of “than” and angry. I have a friend, a magistrate’s seat, it is said to be less than adequate, more than under, but he recently suddenly irritability upset to feel that life has no meaning, so threatened that “work can not do ”. I found out that it was not long ago that the party secretary of the county party committee transferred to his county had been his former deputy for many years and his subordinates had become “superiors.” Therefore, he felt that he could not do anything because he felt no face.