美国人崇尚自由和民主,但他们同样需要对孩子有所管束。在管束孩子时,他们基本上遵循以下10项原则:1.归属原则:保证孩子在健康的家庭环境中成长,使孩子从小就对家庭建立起可信赖的归属感。2.希望原则:经常鼓励孩子树立成长的目标。无论遇到什么挫折,永远让孩子看到希望。3.平等原则:与孩子平等对话,倾听孩子的声音,理解孩子的想法并加以引导,不要总是居高临下地 Americans advocate freedom and democracy, but they also need to have control over their children. In the management of children, they basically follow the following 10 principles: 1. Belonging principle: to ensure that children grow up in a healthy family environment, so that children from childhood built a trustworthy sense of belonging to the family. 2. The principle of hope: children are often encouraged to establish the goal of growth. No matter what setbacks, always let the children see hope. 3. The principle of equality: dialogue with children equal, listen to children’s voices, understand and guide the children’s ideas, do not always condescend to