一个热心慈善的富翁,向三个贫困家庭提出捐助,却收到迥然不同的答复。一家拒绝,以为是施舍———这是戒。一家犹豫,声明要偿还———这是虑。一家欣然,感激地接受———这是善。面对他人的善心与善举,我们理所应当以善回应,在这一来一往中,爱在传递,善在弘扬。戒者,乃戒心、戒备,实在要不得。就好比在凛冽的寒风中饥寒交迫的时候,突然有人端来一笼热腾腾的包子,你却嗤之以鼻,眉眼高扬,啐了一口唾沫, A charitable and wealthy man who made donations to three poor families received a very different reply. A refusal, that is alms - this is the ring. One hesitated to declare to repay - this is a worry. A happy, grateful acceptance --- it is good. In the face of the kindness and goodness of others, we should properly respond by doing good in this way. Or ring, is wary, alert, it really can not. Like cold and cold in the cold and hunger, when someone suddenly came to a hot croutons, but you scoff, raised his brow, sobbed saliva,