在一个学校里,有位心理专家要求学生做这样一道测试题:每人背着七个袋子,穿过一片沙漠,袋子里分别装着诚信、善良、孝顺、勇敢等美德。在前行的过程中,每隔一段时间就要丢掉一个袋子,最终只能保留一个。学生们商量再三,无法取舍,有的甚至急哭了,最后只好交了白卷。也许交白卷正是专家期许的结果,目的就是测试学生美好的心灵。但这种近似“残忍”的测试方法实不足取,这就好比问母亲和妻子掉在河里先救谁一样无聊,它触碰到了人心最不愿意面对的柔软一面,注定难有“标准”答案。微信里经常收到这样的群发消息:“不要 At a school, a psychiatrist asked the students to do a test like this: Each person carries seven bags and walks through a desert. The bags are filled with the virtues of honesty, kindness, filial piety and courage. In the process of going forward, it is necessary to lose one bag every once in a while, and in the end only one can be kept. Students discuss again and again, unable to choose, and some even crying, and finally had to pay the bill. Maybe it is the result of the experts ’approval that the purpose is to test the students’ beautiful heart. However, this kind of approximate ”cruel “ test method is not enough, which is like asking mother and wife to fall asleep in the river as boring, it touches the softest side of the people most willing to face, destined to have difficulty ”standard answer. WeChat often receive such a mass message: "Do not