设想一下:朋友们约你去游泳,但你换上泳装后却发现自己身材臃肿,你是否会因此而忧心忡忡,不敢去赴约?或者,你的父母经常为了一些鸡毛蒜皮的小事争吵甚至大打出手,你虽然十分重视家庭和睦和家人之间的感情,但会否因为担心自己劝和不成反坏事而放弃这个念头,只是无奈地旁观? Imagine: friends about you to go swimming, but after you put on a swimsuit and found yourself bloated, whether you will therefore be worried about, dare not go to the appointment? Or, your parents often quarrel for some trivial trivial even fight, Although you attach great importance to family harmony and feelings between your family, but will you give up this idea because you are afraid of persuading you to do something bad or bad?