人的一生,上至帝王将相、下至平民百姓,无一例外都要经历这样那样的折磨,不同的只是时间上或早或晚而已。然后终于明白没有永远的一帆风顺,终于习惯了负多胜少是人生常态,也终于领悟了人性美好的珍贵。曾经痛苦,才知道真正的痛苦;曾经执着,才能放下执着;曾经牵挂,才能了无牵挂。豁然开朗,都是经历之后才有的礼物。假如只是远远看着那些人、那些事,就永远不会看清 Human life, from the emperor will phase, down to the common people, without exception, have to experience such a torture, the difference is only time or sooner or later. And finally understand that there is no easy forever, and finally got used to more negative and less life is normal, and finally comprehend the preciousness of humanity. Once painful, I know the real pain; has been persistent, in order to put down the attachment; used to worry, to no care. Suddenly, are the gifts after experiencing. If you just look at those people far, those things, they will never see