在我们给儿童提供一种新的游戏,一种促进儿童活动倾向的新途径之前,让我们努力使自己熟悉儿童,通过为他提供的发展途径来了解他已经达到的水平,以及了解为了进一步发展,他还需要什么。通过这样的认识,不仅我们今后给予他的东西可以在其生命中确实产生有益的影响,而且作为自觉的给予者,我们可以知道:在与儿童整个生命的发展协调一致的基础上,儿童通过“恩物”将会得到什么样的进一步发展。因此,儿童可能更加信任我们,更加愿意接受我们的礼物, Before we give children a new game, a new way of promoting the tendencies of children, let’s work hard to familiarize ourselves with children, understand what he has achieved by providing him with avenues of development, and understand that for further development What else does he need? By this recognition, not only can the things we give him in the future do indeed have a beneficial impact in their lives, but as a conscious giver we can know that on the basis of being coordinated with the development of the child’s entire life, What kind of “grace thing” will get further development. As a result, children may trust us more and be more willing to accept our gifts,