几年前了,一个朋友说起撞车的经历。朋友从家出来发现车被刮了,正自懊恼,一大汉过来问:“哥们儿,这车是你的?刚才我倒车给你刮上了,给你五百块钱你自己找地儿修一下?”朋友当时不知哪来的那股豪气,说什么也没要那钱,还放言修配厂有哥们儿,花钱修车没面子。后来我问他,当时为啥没要那钱,朋友说后来细想绝不是不想要,而是没敢要,这主动等着赔钱,太 A few years ago, a friend talked about the crash experience. My friend came out from home and found the car was shaved, since the annoyance, a big man came to ask: “buddy children, this car is you? I just back up to you scratch, give you five hundred dollars to find your own children Repair about? ”" Friends did not know where to come from that heroic, saying nothing of the money, but also said that there are Buddy repair factory children, spend money to repair the car did not face. Later, I asked him why I did not need the money at that time. My friend said that I did not want to think about it later. I did not dare to ask for it.