一个女友发来一个问题:我觉得我很纯洁,可是同事们都说我特会勾引人。她们天天讽刺我,我感觉到非常大的压力,郁闷死了。我想辞职。我收到这个信息后笑了起来:又一个“思想纯洁,行为暧昧”的倒霉孩子。也许你静下心来思考时会发现,我们正处在一个社会文化急剧变革的年代。我们既觉得试婚具有合理性,又被传统的道德观束缚;我们既懂得性生活的重要性,又被梁山伯和祝英台的柏拉图式爱情感动,幻想自己是其中的女主角,现在的男人们却并没有人想当傻乎乎的梁山伯。 A girlfriend sent a question: I think I am pure, but my colleagues say I will seduce people. Every day they satirze me, I feel a lot of pressure, depressed dead. I want to quit. After I got this message, I laughed: another unlucky child with “pure thinking, ambiguous behavior”. Perhaps when you stop to think about it, you will find that we are in a period of rapid social and cultural change. We both think that trial marriage is reasonable and is bound by traditional moral values. We not only understand the importance of sex life but are also touched by Platonic love by Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, who are themselves the protagonists of the present. None of the men wanted to be a silly boy.