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《学习的革命》中有这样的一段话:如果一个孩子生活在批评之中,他就学会了谴责;如果一个孩子生活在鼓励之中,他就学会了自信;如果一个孩子生活在认可之中,他就学会了自爱。这段话要求我们做家长的要多给孩子鼓励,多给孩子认可,少一些批评。因此,家庭教育中家长应避免以下语言: 1.“你不听话,我告诉你们老师!”这种语言滥借师威慑服孩子,易使学生与老师产生隔阂,从而不相信家长的能力。可换成:“你想,你们老师是怎样教你的呢?”
There is a passage in “Learning Revolutions”: If a child lives in criticism, he learns to condemn; if a child lives in encouragement, he learns to be confident; if a child lives in recognition He learned to love himself. This passage requires us to be more parents to encourage children, give children more recognition, less criticism. Therefore, parents of family education should avoid the following languages: 1. “You do not listen, I tell you the teacher!” This language abusive teacher deterring children, easy to make students and teachers estranged, so do not believe in the ability of parents. Can be replaced by: “You think, how do your teachers teach you?”