1.“自己来做决定吧”如果你想让孩子做某件事,或者是停止做某件事,我们建议你这样说。这么说为了让孩子了解,他要为自己的行为负责任。你可以对你的女儿和她的小伙伴说:“你们来做决定,是想留在这里安静地玩,还是到外面去?”5分钟之后,孩子们依旧大声喧哗,你就可以再告诉他们:“我知道了,看来你们是决定到外面去了。” 1. “Make your own decision.” If you want your child to do something or stop doing something, we suggest that you say that. In order to let the children know, he is responsible for his actions. You can say to your daughter and her companion: “Do you decide whether you want to play quietly or go outside?” After 5 minutes, the children are still loud, and you can Tell them: “I see, it seems you guys decided to go outside.”