关键事件会对个体发展产生决定性的影响。影响留守儿童的关键事件一是外出父母是否与孩子建立起情感依恋,二是代养人能否补偿亲情需要,三是学校、老师、同学等能否成为留守儿童的“重要他人”。父母、代养人及学校、老师、同学等应关注留守儿童情感发展,给予帮助与指导。 Critical events can have a decisive impact on individual development. One of the key events affecting left-behind children is whether the outgoing parents should establish emotional attachments with their children or not, and second, whether or not the adoptee can compensate for the needs of their relatives. Third, schools, teachers, classmates and others can become “important other ” for left-behind children. Parents, adoptive people and schools, teachers, students should be concerned about the emotional development of left-behind children, to give help and guidance.