在今天的3.2个亿家庭中.有徐母这种心态的家长不止一个,有徐力这样的孩子也不止一个。在物质生活条件越来越丰富的今天,孩子成长却出现了“三大三小”的现象,即:生活的空间越来越大,生长的空间越来越小;房屋的空间越来越大,心灵的空间越来越小;外界的压力越来越大,内在的动力越来越小。 In today’s 3.2 billion families, there is more than one parent Xu who has such a mentality. There are more than one child like Xu Li. In today’s increasingly materialistic living conditions, the growth of children has brought about the phenomenon of “three major minorities”, namely: the living space is getting larger and larger and the space for growth is getting smaller and smaller; the space for housing is more and more The larger the spiritual space is getting smaller and smaller; the pressure of the outside world is getting bigger and bigger, the inner power getting smaller and smaller.