十一春秋时,儒家弟子子张、子夏陪同孔子一同前去拜访季康子。孔子进屋和季康子座谈时,子张和子夏在外边辩论起来。辩论的过程中,子夏辞气很盛,脸色激动。子张说:“你听过先生辩论吧!和颜悦色,侃侃漫谈,仪态庄重,先默听然后发言,得理能让,议论深刻,旁征博引,讲出道理。小人辩论的时候,往往自以为是,抓住别人的错误不放,两眼发红,说个不停。一旦侥幸得胜,便得意狂笑,言辞粗俗,礼仪扫地,因此君子鄙 Eleven Spring and Autumn Period, Confucian disciples Zi Zhang, Zi Xia accompanied with Confucius went to visit the quarter Kang son. When Confucius entered the room and quasi-confrontation with son, Zhang and Zi Xia debated outside. In the course of the debate, Zi Xia’s speech was very rich and his face was agitated. Sub-Zhang said: ”You heard Mr Debate! Passionate, talkative, dignified attitude, silence and then speak, be able to make reason, make a profound argument, cited Bo cited, to make sense of the villain debates, often self-righteous, Hold on to the mistakes of others, his eyes red, said non-stop .Once lucky victory, they are proud ridicule, vulgar language, etiquette sweeping, so gentleman despicable