古人说“人生不如意事十常八九”。的确,我们几乎每天都能遇到失意的事。士子落第、将军被俘、后妃失宠、寡妇丧子,是古人常说的四大失意事。齐梁文人钟嵘意犹未尽,又补充两条:楚臣去境、汉妾辞宫。即屈原去国与昭君出塞。王安石最后归纳说:“人生失意无南北。” The ancients said “life is worse than usual.” Indeed, we can encounter frustration almost daily. Scholars fall, the general captured, Princess Disappointed, widowed, is the ancients often said four frustrated things. Qi Liang Wen Zhongren unfinished, added two: Chu Chen to go to the territory, concubine Palace. Qu Yuan to the kingdom and Zhaojun stuffed. Wang Anshi finally summed up: “life is frustrated north and south.”