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做一个什么样的人?对大多数人来说,其实一辈子都在思考,都在自觉不自觉地进行选择。如果从大处来划分,可供选择的人生状态无非三种:精明人,聪明人,明白人。何为“精明人”?即绝不吃亏的人。他们精于盘算,事事占先,别人有的自己得有,别人没有的自己也得有。“凭什么让我吃亏?”是精明人的口头禅。他们是生活中活跃的一群,耍小聪明,搞小动作,是他们的特长。何为“聪明人”?即不计小亏而志在长远的人。他们不争一时的先后、长短、输赢,善于调节控制自己,知道在最重要的环节上施展聪明才华,自信心强,有人格魅力。聪明人总是少数,是人群中的中坚力量。
What kind of person to do? For most people, in fact, life is thinking, are consciously or unconsciously choose. If you divide it from the big picture, there are no more than three kinds of life choices for you: smart people, smart people and bright people. What is “smart people”, that is, people who do not suffer. They are good at calculating, everything takes precedence, others have their own, others do not have their own. “What makes me lose?” Is a shrewd mantra. They are a group of active people in life. They should be clever and engage in small tricks. They are their specialty. What is “smart people”? That is, regardless of small losses and long-term people. They are indisputable one after another, length, win or lose, good at regulating and controlling themselves, knowing that in the most important aspects of display their talents, self-confidence, charisma. Smart people are always the few, the backbone of the crowd.