以网络传播(CMC)为首的新媒体传播成为传播学的热点,其中通过网络进行交友寻找一段浪漫的关系或者性关系成为新的研究方向。本文尝试探讨在CMC中,个人如何进行自我暴露以及自我呈现,及其原因和结果。发现网络以可控性更强的字面交流为基础,缺少非语言的线索,交流的不同步性,给用户更多机会和时间有意识的构建传播信息,导致了选择性的自我呈现。其次,网络的匿名性和距离等因素带来的安全感让用户更愿意和更快进行自我暴露,由于互惠原则,双方都会作为交换,进行更多和更深的自我暴露。因此这种选择性自我呈现以及自我暴露的特点,使得网络上的双方能够更加喜欢对方,并且会更快地进入亲密,并且理想化对方,并且产生一种CMC循环使得亲密关系更加深入快速。 The dissemination of new media by the spread of the Internet (CMC) has become a hotspot in communication science. Among them, the search for a romantic relationship or sexual relationship through the network has become a new research direction. This article attempts to explore how individuals are exposed and self-presented in the CMC, together with their causes and consequences. Found that the network is based on the more controllability of literal communication, the lack of non-verbal clues, the asynchronous communication, giving users more opportunities and time to consciously construct and disseminate information, resulting in selective self-presentation. Second, the security afforded by factors such as network anonymity and distance makes users more willing and faster to self-expose themselves and as a result of the principle of reciprocity, both parties exchange more and deeper self-disclosure. This selective self-disclosure and self-exposure, therefore, allows both parties on the network to be more like each other and to enter intimately and ideally each other more quickly and to create a CMC loop that makes intimacy more in-depth and faster.