真正打动人的感情总是朴实无华的,它不出声,不张扬,埋得很深。当初娶母亲时,父亲是极力反对,他不喜欢这种父母之命,媒妁之言的封建婚姻,父亲想,民国时候,鲁迅先生就已经批判过这种婚姻,谁知道过了几十年,这样的事情还能摊到他头上。父亲的反对无效,因为祖父说,你赶快结婚吧,后面还有你几个兄弟呢,再说,人家要的彩礼 Really touching feelings are always simple, it does not say anything, do not play, buried deep. When marrying her mother, her father strongly opposed him. He did not like this kind of parental life, the feudal marriage of media words. When his father thought that in the Republic of China, Mr. Lu Xun had already criticized such marriage. Who knows for decades, Such things can be spread to him. My father’s objection is null and void because his grandfather said that you get married quickly and there are a few brothers behind you. Besides, people want the bride price