近年来,随着科学技术的不断发展,各国之间的竞争愈发激烈,但说到底,人的素养的竞争是核心内容,因此新一代才是竞争力的体现与主力军。本文主要以美国家庭教育为例,从分析中美两国家庭教育的差异入手,根据对美国家庭教育成功经验的探讨,对苏州家庭教育提出一些可借鉴的建议与思想。 In recent years, with the continuous development of science and technology, the competition among different countries has become fiercer. However, the competition of human quality is the core issue after all. Therefore, the new generation is the embodiment and main force of competitiveness. Based on the analysis of family education in China and the United States, this paper mainly takes American family education as an example. Based on the discussion of the successful experience of family education in the United States, this article puts forward some suggestions and thoughts for reference to family education in Suzhou.