爱情都是自私的,所以我们总是忍不住不小心把婚姻变成彼此的监狱。其实婚后他(她)还有那么一两个异性朋友也不是什么大不了的事,既然他都可以给你一个“友谊”的借口,为什么非要逼着他承认确实存有“苟且之心”呢?相反正是因为有了哥们儿,婚姻反而更牢固了一些,因为两个人相处久了,激情褪去以后难免起争执和产生矛盾,偶尔出去跟哥们儿小聚,也从跟一个男人的相处变成跟一群男人的相处,透透气以后回来看待问题会更 Love is selfish, so we can not help but accidentally turn a marriage into a prison for each other. In fact, after marriage, he or she has one or two opposite sex friends is not a big deal, since he can give you an excuse for “friendship ”, why not force him to admit that there is indeed The heart of "it? On the contrary, it is precisely because of the buddy, the marriage is even more solid, because the two people get along for a long time, the passion faded inevitably arrogance and conflict, and occasionally go out with your buddy, Getting along with a man becomes like getting along with a group of men