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夫妻之间襟怀坦白,肝胆相照,从理论上讲,这是信任和真诚的标志。但是,真诚相待绝不意味着可以不讲说话的艺术。婚姻学家和人类关系专家通过大量的案例研究发现,导致夫妻之间产生矛盾,甚至造成离婚的原因中间有很多正是因为夫妻间开诚布公、实话实说造成的。有道是,一言可亲,一语亦可成“仇”。因此,心理学家提醒,如果你对妻子或丈夫的爱是真挚的,那么你就应该避免直接地把你的某些感情和想法告诉给对方,特别是一
Between the husband and wife with a sense of honesty and congenitality, in theory, this is a sign of trust and sincerity. However, treating in good faith means in no way an art that can speak without words. Through a large number of case studies, marriage scholars and human relations experts have found that many of the reasons leading to conflicts between husband and wife and even divorce are precisely caused by the openness and honesty between husband and wife. It is a matter of course, a word of delight, the phrase can also become “hatred ”. Therefore, psychologists caution that if your love for your wife or husband is sincere, then you should avoid telling each other about some of your feelings and thoughts, especially one