【编辑留言】孩子的世界比成人简单,因为简单,表达也相对直接,而这种直接往往让他人尴尬。化解这种尴尬需要技巧,避免这种尴尬需要父母以身作则。以礼物论远近我从农村来,通过自己的努力在沈阳立住了脚,娶妻生子,有车有房,能够自给自足。我有一姐一哥。哥哥在北京,自己做生意,条件不错。老姐在农村老家,靠国家的富农政策,手头也宽裕不少。这两年,哥哥的生意做大了,业务范围扩展到了沈阳,因此,我家就成了据点,不是哥哥来就是姐 [Editor’s note] Children’s world simpler than adults, because of the simple, the expression is relatively direct, and this kind of direct is often embarrassing to others. To resolve this embarrassment requires skill, to avoid such embarrassment parents need to lead by example. From the gift theory, I came from rural areas far and wide, through my own efforts, I settled my feet in Shenyang, got my wife and children, got a car, and was self-sufficient. I have a sister and a brother. Brother in Beijing, his own business, good condition. Older sister in his hometown of the countryside, rich country by the country’s policy, a lot of money on hand. These two years, my brother’s business bigger and expanded to Shenyang business scope, so my family has become a stronghold, not my brother is sister