这年头,如果你对朋友说:我失恋了。她会张大了嘴巴说啊?如果你对朋友说:我失身了。她头不抬眼不睁地说:哦。如果你对朋友说:我献身了。她肯定惊讶地问你:为什么呀?这年头,失身失恋都不是什么大不了的事。“失”是被动,一时糊涂,吃了点小亏;“献”是主动,头脑清醒地投了怀送了抱……那么,女人们是什么让你们主动献身?爱情?恩情?还是寂寞的召唤? This year, if you say to a friend: I am out of love. She would have a big mouth to say ah? If you say to a friend: I lost. Her head does not look up and say: Oh. If you say to a friend: I am devoted. She must be surprised to ask you: Why? This year, lost love is not a big deal. “Lost ” is passive, temporary confused, ate a small loss; “offer ” is active, clear-headed cast with arms to hug ... ... then, what is the woman let you take the initiative to devote? Love? Grace? Or lonely call?