嫉妒之心,人皆有之。这种负面情绪几乎是与生俱来的。十几个月大的婴儿当看到母亲给别的孩子喂奶时,就会出现哭闹不安等反应。有的孩子长到五六岁时,如见到其他小朋友的玩具比自己的好,便会感到不快。在学生中,嫉妒也是十分常见的现象:有的学生会因老师表扬同桌而嗤之以鼻;有的对同学在学习上超过自己或考试成绩名列前茅而闷闷不乐……有关专家指出,有嫉妒心的青少年性格怪僻,难与同伴相处,若不及时纠正, Jealous heart, everyone has it. This negative emotion is almost inherent. More than a dozen months old baby when the mother to see other children feeding, there will be crying uneasy reaction. Some children grow up to five or six years old, as to see other children’s toys better than their own, they will feel unhappy. Among students, jealousy is also a very common phenomenon: some students will be scoffed at by teachers for complimenting the same table; some students are overwhelmed by their learning or their test scores. Some experts pointed out that jealous young people are weird , Difficult to get along with peers, if not promptly corrected,