所谓成长,就是一段由此及彼、从近到远的旅程。小的时候,我们总在向往远方,同时又总在害怕远方。远方因为未知而迷人,又因为广阔而装得下我们断有的想象。我们想要飞奔过去,选择的却是小心翼翼地试探。事实上,成长从来都是这般矛盾。七岁,我抓着筷子吃饭。大人们大概觉得我小小的手抓着筷子的顶端认真费力夹菜的样子很有趣,便善意地开玩笑说:抓筷子抓得这么远,以后过日子要离家很远哟。周围人哈哈一笑,我也似懂非懂地跟着笑,笑完低头,继续认真费力地夹起一块红烧肉塞进嘴里。饭菜的香味引来了邻居家的小狗,它摇着尾巴欢腾地奔过来,脖子上挂着的小铃铛一 The so-called growth, is a period of this and that, from near to far journey. As a kid, we always aspire to the distance, but always afraid of the distance. Because of the unknown because of the distant and charming, but also because of the vast and we have broken imagination. We want to flew in the past, the choice is carefully tested. In fact, growth has always been such a contradiction. Seven years old, I grabbed chopsticks for dinner. Adults probably think my little hand holding the top of the chopsticks effortlessly entangled dishes look very interesting, they are jokingly said good: grasp the chopsticks so far, after living away from home yo. People around smiled, I also understand smiles, laughing down, continue to carefully and effortlessly pick up a piece of braised pork stuffed into his mouth. The scent of the food drew the puppies of the neighbor’s house, which jolted its tail with joy, the little bells hanging around his neck